Practical Thinking

Practical thinking is the most important thing that nobody teaches us in our life. No parents, teacher or friends will tell ever teach you about these things.

So, I will today teach you some easy practical steps so that you can take any decisions in your life by yourself when there are no friends or parents with you.

These are the simple steps :-

1. While taking any decision in your life try to think of it's good or worst sides both.
2. Don't judge anyone too quickly in your life.
3. Try to remain calm in every situation.
4. Never hurry.
5. Take the decision.

1. Looking for Both Sides

There is a saying that every coin has it's two sides. Let's take an example, while going on a walk alone, an unknown guy/girl approaches you and asks to you that "Will You Be My Friend" what's the answer you are going to reply him/her? Obviously, you will reply that specific Person with No.

No. Why? This is because that time our brain is at a conscious state. By conscious, I mean we are well aware that it's a stranger and I don't this person well. (Brain is active or aware at that moment)

Yes. Why Not? The answer could be Yes for some people but most of the people will say No. The reason behind this is that people who are replying them positively due to their brain that is unconscious that means which is inactive.

2. Don't Judge Anyone Quickly

There is a saying that

Don't judge a book by it's cover.

By this quote we mean that as in our mind as it's put inside our mind that First Impression Is The Last Impression that is completely wrong. You can't judge anyone by meeting them for the first time.

We don't know about the person who are they? It's take a lot of time to know that person. Whenever we meet any person we form perceptions in our mind that this person will be right this or that.

But, that's completely wrong. When we approach a person, we should keep in mind that we don't know a single thing about that person.

3. Try to Keep Calm

Whenever something happens in our life like if some fight happens people gets divide into two groups, one group that takes positive side and the other groups that takes the negative side. That's where the situation gets worst by those fights.

For example :- If people see something on the internet they jump to conclusions too quickly without analysing what could be the reason behind it. They don't know the back story of it.

So remaining calm and cool, staying middle man will be good until the situation gets solved.

4. Never Hurry

If you want anything in your life, it comes with a cost. If you want a girlfriend or wife.

Yes you can have it. I mean you are you willing to pay the cost for it?

Nothing comes easy. You have to sacrifice some things in your life like lust, sex, girlfriends, etc. These are the things that are stopping you to achieve your goals. Many people fall in these traps like single peoples, guy who is doing a job or some students who fall in traps of temporary happiness and their life is screwed just for the temporary happiness. Why do you want those things just for Sex?

You want relationships? Do you know that person have the right to screw you or break your relationship and crush your career. You will be nowhere then, you will be again sad and you will again find someone they will again screw you these repeated things cycles.

Your future will be doomed in these types of things, so think carefully. Many people have lost their jobs, gone to prison, family left them just for the temporary pleasures.

These things lead to a loss of job or ending their career in darkness. So, now what's the solution?

The solution is easy if you want those things for long-term in your life. Then you have to sacrifice those porn, masturbation, lust, love, phone addiction, etc. Then, once you achieve your goals many people get attracted to you by your hard work. Then when you are stable, you can get a companion for yourself.

That's why now focus on your work or goals. I know firstly it will be hard for you but later all the things will be okay. So, never hurry.

Good things take time

 5. Take the Decision

Take the decision from now. Temporary pleasures of those repeated cycles or long term happiness. It's upto you. So what are you waiting for you can start from today.

So get off your butt and start doing. Leave your phone, right now and start working.

Always remember :-

Nothing + something = Good,

Nothing + hard things = best.

At the end I just want to say to you

You Are Awesome